The Chartered Institute of Personnel and Development

Short training courses

Content of Essential Interpersonal Skills

DAY 1


Introductions and objectives


Heroes and villains


  • real-life experience of working relationships

What are people skills?

  • the recognition and regulation model of behaviour

What makes people tick?

  • how people make sense of the world

Personal insights


  • values-based behaviour
  • understanding the impact we make on others and its consequences

People situations


  • real-life case studies

Elements of effective working relationships


Relationship mapping and analysis


The value of listening, and barriers to good listening


Learning to listen well

 

Transactional analysis as a tool for people

 

problem-solving.


DAY 2


Review of Day 1


Influencing strategies

  • a range of strategies from PUSH to PULL Influencing situations
  • how to combine the strategies to get the results you want

Influencing types


  • adapting language and behaviour to get results

The ABC of managing others

  • using activators and consequences to manage others’ performance

Giving feedback

 

Reaching constructive outcomes

 

  • the application of people skills to real-life situations

Action planning